I know that the ambiance right know is difficult, that almost all young people like you, think Hollywood Style… they promote the wrong idea that relationships are totally different than normal relationships.
They want to make you believe that all this stuff around the relationships is real… but, no… this is not real and this is not the way to find a good girl for you.
You can’t see all women as objects. In the shows, movies and all the media stuff they spread the idea that you need to have sex with all the girls that you meet, that it doesn’t matter if you know their name or their thoughts, the real goal is to have pleasure, to have good moments with them, and if either of you feels tired or bored… then you can find a new partner …
That’s not love… think about it… I mean, really think about, and are you really happy with this kind of life? Do you think that this is the only way to know someone who will be a part of your life? Don’t be selfish, the real love includes compromise, sacrifice, implies also knowledge, friendship, joy, understanding, confidence, loyalty, and also includes maturity and looking towards your future and her future!
Having sex is not just that, it also helps the other person be better, to have common goals… Don’t fall in the trap! Try to have a balanced life! You are more than only sex, sports, school and friends! You are also a spiritual person, you also has a family! Try to grow up in all of these aspects of your life!
Your future depends on the decisions that you are making now! Be smart! You are more than a Hollywood show! Wake up! The real life is totally different… In these kinds of shows they are acting! But they also need to make good decisions, and they know that! They know that the real life is totally different! Don’t push the girls to be actors of your Play!
Don’t be afraid! Be a man! Be a real man!